I’ve been wanting to be more active with my blog again so I’ve devised a concept called ‘musings’. Musings are random thoughts, not necessarily well thought out and not edited very well. So I apologize for any grammar errors and please feel free to write me any errors you find.
I’ve been thinking about 69, you know the act of two people mutually pleasuring each other simultaneously. I could be wrong, but a lot of women will take a pass on this mutual pleasure preferring to take turns. Why take turns? Mostly because they want to experience all the juiciness of receiving their’s man’s tongue and fingers solely on her pussy without having to give head at the same time. Personally, I really dig mutual pleasure orally or with the hands. I won’t lie, I could feel ripped off if I don’t get all the attention at some time.
Mutual pleasure is an energy exchange. Lay off trying so hard to make your partner orgasm, be slower and focus on riding that wave together. Take turns being on top enjoy feeling passive as well as active. When the woman is on top she can move her hips, sit deeper or pull away all the while holding on to your cock like her personal gear shift. She can tease your cock with her mouth and hands while you work away between her legs.
It’s very powerful for the man to be on top because you are essentially ‘face fucking’ your partner. But be mindful of her and how much of your cock she can take before you get too vigorous. There is nothing wrong with using her mouth as your fuck toy as long as you reward her with wet kisses from your tongue. In this position you can also finger her deeply and slowly or maybe deeply with vigorous thrusting. Always depends on what her pussy likes.
Fairly certain 69 usually ends when someone’s neck starts to hurt. Or that more serious things need to happen! That is why being the one on the bottom is high real estate. It’s really the most comfortable position. I’m sure as the man you love feel her breasts and belly laying on top of you too.
Feel free to send me any deep thoughts on 69!
Hmmm! Thought provoking perspective. I’ve always preferred taking turns and probably still will but I like the perspective you’re bringing here. I’m definitely up to try. Especially interested in taking turns on top and have always felt there might be a side by side option I’m missing out on too.
Hi Camela,
I’m happy to hear that you plan to be more active on your blog. I enjoy reading your articles, musings, whatever you wish to call them,
This musing of your made me re-think my concept of “69”. I had always thought of it as primarily oral-oral. This does not work well when the two people have significantly different length torsos. Opening it up to alternately having oral on one person and hand action on the other followed by a reversal of roles gives it a whole new meaning to me.Just thinking about it is causing problems.
Just as an added note, when the man happens to be on the bottom, a small pillow to support the head will help delay the neck ache for him.